Honoring the Divine Feminine in Marriage and Motherhood

What might it have been like to live in a societyon it, so it must be done well. The Mother
where the Divine Feminine as Mother wasGoddess has given us the gift of family and home
revered? In our present cultural context theas the cornerstone of our civilization.
importance of motherhood is paid lip service moreAll Life Rises from Sacred Union of Masculine and
than it is genuinely revered. We can imagine whatFeminine
such a world might look like though, by reviewingTo bless the sacred marriage of a young woman
what we know about Minoan civilization, datingand man, we have ceremonies in the sacred
from about 3,000 to 1400 B.C. The Minoans livedspace where the Horns of consecration stand.
on the island of Crete in the Mediterranean Sea.The horns are the sign of the male. The male is
Abundant archaeological evidence exists for thisthe fertilizing principle. The space between the
society's reverence of a Goddess. Murals found athorns is the shape of a womb. It's the female,
Knossos, a town in Crete, show plant life inthe creative principle.
exuberant growth around the central image of aWe revere these male and female life forces, for
female deity. Animals and humans are depicted asthey pervade the entire universe. All of life rises
part of this abundance. These paintings revealfrom the mystery and rapture of their union."
reverence for the generative powers of Earth.When my first child was ready to be born I was
Take a moment to visit this place where theswiftly carried in a palanquin by my kinsmen to an
Divine Feminine was honored, to see it throughinn, where women stay before and after a birth.
the words of Minah, a Minoan woman fromSuch lodgings are close to caves, our sacred
ancient Crete and imagine ways motherhood andplaces where we women prefer to give birth. The
marriage might be returned to a place ofenergies and presence of our Goddess are very
reverence today.strong there. It is said that those energies assist a
Motherhood, Family, Home are the Cornerstonesmother in birthing her child.
of CivilizationFor my child's birth my midwives spread beautiful
A mother giving birth is a vessel for the presencerugs, pillows and linens on the floor of the cave. I
of the Goddess.brought votive offerings to the Goddess and
The mother phase in a woman's life is a timeplaced them in the cave.
when she surrenders herself to the creativeHonoring the Gift of Birth
powers of nature. She also surrenders to theWhen I went home a great celebration was held
spirit world, so that spirit can come into herby my clan. They invited many people to
womb and be born.welcome my newborn. Then there was feasting,
The mother gives life to her child both in thesong and dance.
womb and outside the womb. She gives of herAfter three months had passed and my child was
own body - her blood within the womb and herstill alive, I and my child's father went to the
milk from the breast. Both blood and milk carrycentral government building. With its red pillars and
the life force, and life depends on them. She givescolorful murals, it is very beautiful. There we
her love and life energy in this way to theregistered our child as a new citizen.
creation and nurture of another life.As a first-time mother, I became one of the
That child is a precious gift to our society. Someleaders of the harvest celebration for that year.
of our newborns don't survive. And a womanA new mother has close ties with the abundance
who gives birth undertakes great risk herself. Sheof the harvest.
walks the line between life and death. Despite theThe Mother Goddess births the grain and fruits of
skill of midwives and their knowledge of herbs toour fields. She is also our goddess of the sea and
make delivery of a child easier, some of ourits creatures. From the sea our men catch the
women die from complications.fish which she gives abundantly. Our men also
I became a mother at age sixteen. This is theinvoke Her protection when they sail as traders
age when we become candidates for mating withto bring back goods from other lands.
a young man and having a family. Young womenAnd so She nurtures and sustains us. She is the
and men who want to marry must come beforemother of all good things that come to us. We
the elder women for approval.must always remember and acknowledge this
Our elder women tell young women and men towith libations and sacrificial offerings to Her.
wait a while if they see that they aren't ready forAfter hearing Minah's story of how women were
that responsibility. They also consider astrologicalhonored as mother and partner in Minoan culture,
signs to decide the most favorable time for thein what way would you like to see sacred
marriage. To create a home and family is a verymarriage and the mother phase in a woman's life
important event and a most sacred thing becausehonored in today's world?
the survival and continuity of our society depends